Big Sibling, Little Moments: How to Help Older Kids Engage with Babies and Toddlers
Help your older child build strong, loving connections with their baby or toddler sibling—while learning responsibility, empathy, and joy through everyday play.
Why Sibling Bonding Matters
When older kids play with their baby siblings, they’re not just entertaining them—they’re building a lifelong connection. Research shows these interactions can increase empathy, improve communication skills, and even reduce jealousy or rivalry.
5 Easy Ways to Encourage Engagement
Create “Helper” Roles
Give your older child simple ways to be helpful—like fetching a toy, singing a song, or gently pushing a stroller. It builds pride and purpose.Choose Activities They Can Do Together
Peekaboo or copycat games
Reading board books
Sensory play with water or fabric bins
Praise the Bond, Not Just the Help
Instead of saying “Thanks for helping,” try:
“She loves when you talk to her!”
This celebrates their relationship—not just a chore.Let the Older Child Lead
Give them space to invent games or “teach” their sibling something new (like a song or a hand game). Being the teacher builds confidence.Schedule “Sibling Time” Into the Day
Even 10–15 minutes of dedicated time goes a long way. Make it routine—before dinner, after nap, etc.
💬 Conversation Starters for Kids
“Want to show your brother how to roll the ball?”
“What book should we read to baby today?”
“Can you teach her your favorite song?”
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